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A Thank You Note from the Teenager

Posted by pavlovskitty on November 7, 2008

(This was clipped outside the door when I got home yesterday after work. My sweetheart’s name is initialed, and her full signature is removed for privacy.)

 

Mom,

I know I haven’t been the best daughter in the world.  I’m sorry for treating you that way.  We were told to write a five sentence note on thankfullness to our parents, but you do more than five sentences can cover.

You go to great lengths for us.  Even though it bugs me, you try so hard to let me know how important school and chores are.  You really do seem to know what’s best for me, even if I don’t myself know.  You listen to me, you pay attention.  I love sitting on the couch and watching the news with you, or doing yoga.

You give such great advice!  Some of the hardest times in my life you’ve helped me through.  Even the little things like buying Beefy Mac every night I seem to take for granted. 

You deserve happines.  I promise I’ll try harder to show you that.  I know you want to be with R and I’m thankful you’re waiting until school is over.

You make me feel safe.  You sleep by the door.  In the middle of the night when I hear a noise I worry if there’s a burgler in the house, I remember that the noise would have woken you up and then I feel fine.

You help me remember I can do anything.  You’re a living example that I don’t need anyone to take care of me to be successful.  I admire you as a single mother and as my mother.

I love you 27.

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Um, popular?

Posted by pavlovskitty on June 25, 2008

I have been shamelessly courted by VH1’s I Love series.  I’ve seen both 70s series, all three 80s, only one of the 90s runs, and last night, started on the I Love the New Millennium set.  (I had to triple check my spelling of millennium btw)  And referring back to yesterday’s post on bedtimes, this was another special event, as 2002 came on right at eight, the year my son was born, so I let him stay up a bit longer than usual to get a pop culture glimpse into his birth year along with his 13 year old sister and me.

However, a bit more than an hour before bedtime, at the end of I Love 2000, there was a segment on Cast Away, starring Tom Hanks. If you haven’t seen the ending yet this many years later, and still want it to be a surprise, stop reading.  The funny people started commenting on how Helen Hunt’s character was married off by the time Tom Hanks’ character, Chuck, had returned, and someone on screen shouted out the word, “WHORE!”

My eyes widened and I glanced sideways at the five year old.  And he caught me, which brought about this wonderfully uncomfortable conversation: 

Brody: What does that mean?

Mommy: It’s a grown up word, and not something you should say at school, or anywhere else really you shouldn’t use words that you can’t define.

Brody: Ok, but what does it mean?

I was trapped.  The smug smile on my teenagers face taunted me to get out of this conversation without stuttering or blushing.

Mommy: Ok, a whore is someone…someone…a girl….

Brody: (flashed his patented innocent attentive look)

Mommy: A girl who has a lot of boyfriends!  But you shouldn’t use that word to describe a girl with a lot of boyfriends.  You should probably just use “popular.”

I gave a satisfied nod, which prompted the teenager’s first raised eyebrow

Mommy: (to Amy, under her breath) Chup!

Amy: (stifled giggle)

Mommy: (to Amy, louder) Chup!

Amy: (the giggles break through)

Mommy: (to Amy, relinquishing what’s left of her maternal dignity): You’re fired!

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